Your counselling and therapy journey: how I’ll support you as an integrative therapeutic counsellor in Birmingham
Your therapy journey: a compassionate, client centred approach in Birmingham and online
Thanks for reading. Today I want to share a little bit about my approach and the way I work as a counsellor and therapist. My counselling and therapy work takes place in Stirchley, South Birmingham or online. You can find my counselling page here if you haven’t already checked it out.
Like many counsellors, I came to counselling and psychotherapy as client with struggles of my own. Exploring my challenges within a safe, supported and validating environment helped me to be more compassionate towards myself and live a more fulfilling and connected life. My own experience of therapy and counselling means I know that it’s not an easy journey. It takes bravery and courage to face our struggles and I’ll be here with you every step of the way.
I’ve also had experiences in therapy that weren’t safe or affirming, so it’s incredibly important to me that the space I offer is LGBTQIA+ affirming, disability affirming, neurodiversity affirming, anti-racist and fat-positive. I’m always happy to share more about what this means in practice if you have an aspect (or intersectional aspects) of your identity that means you’re wondering whether I am the right fit for you. My approach as a counsellor is all about creating a safe and supportive space for you, and working with various therapeutic models to tailor our work to you and what you need.
The Counselling Relationship; trust and connection
Our therapeutic relationship is a partnership and it’s important to me to create a safe, supported space where your thoughts and feelings are heard. Working with a new counsellor is a process of discovery. Building trust takes time and I work at your pace, to make sure you’re always in the diving seat.
Your safety is a priority. Therapy isn’t always easy but the rewards can more than make up for that. My focus on safety and trauma-informed care will support you to navigate what ever comes up. This often means working with what’s happening in the present moment, rather than examining past traumas and reliving them. Working through unresolved issues from the past can absolutely be beneficial and lots of my clients choose to take this path, but what’s also often helpful is understanding your experience in the here and now. I believe the mind, body and nervous system all play an equal and incredibly important roll in the healing journey and learning to work with these aspects, which we can do together, can really support you to move forward.
Practical tools for safety: trauma informed, neuroscience and somatic based approaches
Something I’m hugely passionate about is helping my clients to understand the role of their body and nervous system and how they store our past experiences. There are so many practical tools that we can use to create more safety and connection in our bodies and sharing these tools with my clients, so that they can use them in their every day lives, is a key part of my approach. I’m a licensed meditation teacher and I’ve trained in Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and Somatic Trauma Therapy and these aspects of my training mean I can work with you on the mind and body level. Some people come to therapy wanting to explore past traumas, some want to explore their experience in the here and now and some want a combination of both of those approaches. Integrating neuroscience and somatic therapy with psychodynamic theory and humanistic approaches means we can work in a safe and supportive way that gives you practical tools to integrate into your every day life.
A space to process and explore your struggles
Sometimes we just need a neutral, supportive space to explore and make sense of our experience. Many people have never experienced having a dedicated space that’s solely for them to explore their experiences. The simple act of being heard and accepted can be a beautiful first step along the path to healing. My approach to holding this space for you is always informed by what you might need. This is something we’ll explore together so we can make adjustments as needed. You are always welcome to come as you are and bring anything you might need to feel safe and supported.
Awareness, compassion and acceptance in counselling
Becoming more aware of ourselves and the way we process our experiences is a bit like peeling back layers of an onion. I’ll support you to explore your experience with self-compassion and curiosity. This can lead to greater self-acceptance and positive change. Part of this process is you feeling accepted, held and seen in our relationship. I'm committed to working affirmingly with all of my clients including being anti-racist and race affirming, disability affirming, LGBTQIA+ affirming and fat-positive. Even so, I appreciate that potential clients may feel cautious about working with a counsellor who doesn’t share aspects of their identity that lead to marginalization. I offer an initial 15 minute chat so you can get a sense of how we might work together and ask any questions you might have about how I can safely support you. You can contact me here.
Issues I work with as a Counsellor in Birmingham and online
Issues I work with include depression, anxiety, stress, self esteem issues, trauma, life transitions, identity, grief and relationships. I also work with ADHD, Autism and other neurodiversity. I am also available to work with other psychological struggles that aren’t listed. You can arrange a no obligation 15 minute chat with me by contacting me via the form below.
How healing happens in Counselling
My integrative approach includes a blend of person-centred therapy, gestalt therapy, acceptance and commitment therapy and psychodynamic therapy. I am also a licensed mindfulness and meditation teacher and I often used meditation and neuroscience based techniques to support you through the process of therapy. This also leaves you with tools that you can also use in your day to day life. Each of these approaches offers a unique lens that can help us to explore your experience.
Healing, I believe, is a collaborative journey. It unfolds as we build trust, explore your experiences and embrace the process of self-discovery. Just as a physical wound can heal with the right care and attention, our work together in therapy allows for the mending of emotional and psychological wounds. It involves understanding, acceptance, and the gradual integration of new awareness into your life.
Healing is not a linear path; it's a series of steps, small victories, and transformative moments that can shape your journey towards a more fulfilling and balanced life. If all of this sounds like it might be a good fit for you and what you’re looking for, you can arrange to have a chat with me by contacting me here. I’ll look forward to chatting and seeing how I might support you to take the next step on your journey.
